Bringing back the romance
I have been married for two years and have had our ups and downs. The strain of work and of taking care of two babies has been getting on my nerves lately and I know that my husband is feeling the strain as well. I am a very romantic person at heart but lately I have also noticed that I no longer have the time to write those little love notes that I used to leave for my husband to find and I also rarely find the time to appreciate what he does for me and for the kids. So now I am trying to bring back the romance into our lives and for once I am clueless… I would love to make him feel special again, so I researched and read and tried to find all the romantic tips that would help me bring back romance into our lives. They helped but it is still not enough.
So I tried to look into myself and meditate and tried to find out where I went wrong and I finally found out why… My inability to say “I’m Sorry” has brought a lot of damage to our relationship. Not enough to alienate us from each other but if I do not do something about it it will most likely go that path. I love my husband and although he is sometimes as hard headed as I am, I still would do everything for him, for our family. And the first thing that I need to do is to make the effort to take the first step and say “I’m Sorry”, although it would be very difficult for me I know I have to do it. Loving someone does not stop at showing your love, you have to make every effort to keep that love alive without waiting for something in return. That is the lesson I have learned and will be my guiding light to bringing back the romance into our lives.
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